Factor out upsert and upsertAndWait

It's a common pattern in the create commands to construct a value,
then (if not exporting it) upsert it and wait for it to
reconcile. This commit factors `upsert`, which does the update/insert
bit, and `upsertAndWait`, which does the whole thing.

Since these output messages, they are methods of `apiType` (previously
`names`), so that they have access to the name of the kind they are
operating on.

Signed-off-by: Michael Bridgen <michael@weave.works>

cmd/flux/reconcile.go

@@ -44,7 +44,7 @@ func init() {
 }
 
 type reconcileCommand struct {
-	names
+	apiType
 	object reconcilable
 }